Project Mistletoe is committed to protecting your privacy and being transparent about how we collect, use, and protect your personal information.
1. Information We Collect
Information You Provide
- Phone Number: Required for account creation, verification, and SMS notifications
- Profile Information: Name, age, gender, interests, relationship preferences, education level, and other profile details you choose to share
- Location Data: GPS coordinates when you check in to find nearby matches
- Messages: Content of SMS messages sent through our relay service
- Payment Information: Processed securely through PayPal (we do not store your credit card details)
Information Automatically Collected
- Usage Data: How you interact with the service, features used, and timestamps
- Device Information: Browser type, operating system, IP address
- SMS Delivery Data: Message delivery status and timestamps
2. How We Use Your Information
We use your information to:
- Provide the Service: Match you with compatible people nearby, facilitate communication, and coordinate meetups
- Send SMS Notifications: Alert you about matches, relay messages between matched users
- AI Matching: Generate compatibility scores, create personalized match descriptions, and suggest conversation starters
- Account Management: Verify your identity, manage your subscription, process payments
- Safety & Security: Prevent fraud, investigate reports, enforce our Terms of Service
- Improve the Service: Analyze usage patterns, fix bugs, develop new features, improve AI matching algorithms and prompts
- Legal Compliance: Respond to legal requests, protect our rights
3. How We Share Your Information
With Other Users
- Profile Information: Shared with potential matches through AI-generated descriptions (your full profile is never shown)
- Messages: Relayed to matched users during the 30-minute chat window
- Location: Only used to determine proximity (never shared directly with other users)
With Service Providers
- Airtable: Database hosting for user profiles and match data
- Twilio: SMS delivery service
- OpenAI: AI-powered matching and conversation generation
- PayPal: Payment processing
- Vercel: Application hosting
Legal Requirements
We may disclose your information if required by law, court order, or to protect the rights, property, or safety of Project Mistletoe, our users, or others.
We Never Sell Your Data
We do not sell, rent, or trade your personal information to third parties for marketing purposes.
4. SMS Communications
By providing your phone number, you consent to receive SMS messages from Project Mistletoe, including:
- One-time verification codes
- Welcome message with your check-in link
- Match notifications when compatible users are nearby
- Relayed messages from matched users
- Important service updates
Message Frequency: Varies based on your activity and matches. You may receive multiple messages per day when actively using the service.
Message & Data Rates: Standard SMS rates apply as determined by your mobile carrier.
Opt-Out: You can stop receiving SMS messages at any time by replying STOP to any message.
Help: Reply HELP to any message for support information.
5. Data Retention
- User Profiles: Retained until you delete your account
- Check-ins: Location data deleted after 24 hours
- Matches: Active for 90 days, then archived
- SMS Logs: Retained for 24 hours for operational purposes
- Deleted Accounts: Personal data anonymized within 30 days (some data retained for legal/safety purposes)
6. Your Privacy Rights
You have the right to:
- Access: Request a copy of your personal data
- Correction: Update inaccurate or incomplete information
- Deletion: Request deletion of your account and personal data
- Opt-Out: Stop receiving SMS messages (will deactivate your account)
- Data Portability: Receive your data in a portable format
- Object: Object to certain uses of your data
To exercise these rights, contact us at the information below.
7. Security
We implement reasonable security measures to protect your information, including:
- Encryption of data in transit and at rest
- Secure authentication with OTP verification
- Anonymous SMS relay to protect phone numbers
- Regular security audits and updates
- Limited employee access to personal data
However, no method of transmission over the internet is 100% secure. We cannot guarantee absolute security.
8. Children's Privacy
Project Mistletoe is not intended for users under 18 years of age. We do not knowingly collect information from minors. If we become aware that we have collected personal information from someone under 18, we will delete it immediately.
9. International Users
Project Mistletoe is operated in the United States. If you are accessing the service from outside the U.S., your information will be transferred to, stored, and processed in the United States. By using our service, you consent to this transfer.
10. California Privacy Rights (CCPA)
California residents have additional rights under the California Consumer Privacy Act (CCPA):
- Right to know what personal information is collected, used, shared, or sold
- Right to delete personal information
- Right to opt-out of the sale of personal information (we do not sell personal information)
- Right to non-discrimination for exercising CCPA rights
11. Changes to This Privacy Policy
We may update this Privacy Policy from time to time. We will notify you of any material changes by posting the new policy on this page and updating the "Last Updated" date. Your continued use of the service after changes constitutes acceptance of the updated policy.
12. Contact Us
Project Mistletoe
Email: privacy@projectmistletoe.com
For privacy-related inquiries, data requests, or to exercise your privacy rights, please email us with "Privacy Request" in the subject line.
13. SMS Terms & Compliance
By using Project Mistletoe, you agree that:
- You are the account holder or have authorization to use the phone number provided
- You consent to receive automated SMS messages
- You understand that consent is not a condition of purchase (free tier available)
- Standard message and data rates may apply
- You can opt out at any time by replying STOP
Our SMS service is provided via Twilio. For questions about SMS delivery or carrier-specific issues, see Twilio's Privacy Policy at twilio.com/legal/privacy.